hosted by Sage (Instagram link)
This event is 21+ only and we will be checking I.Ds at the door.
Indulge in your deepest of desires!
Explore that of which is deemed sinful, lascivious, insatiable, and indolent. Indulge in the deliciousness of the sweetest of treats bestowed upon you. Explore the depths of your sensual desires and connections. Be filled with greed and treat yourself to something new as you shop our curated selection of vendors. Relax and unwind before you start your week and must travel back to the mundane on this most sinful of Sundays. As you savor each of our deadliest of sins!
Come treat yourself to an evening of relaxation. Mingle, indulge, and play before starting the week at our serene play party. Feel free to take part and dress the theme.
We will have mini workshops throughout the event with our vendors demonstrating their wares and or leading informative discussions on topics such as impact play, self love and care, and more!
We will be serving light alcohol(wine, hard seltzer’s, beer) as this event will revolve around a more relaxing serene unwinding kind of environment. Each person will receive 4 alcoholic drink tickets. We will also have an assortment of light bites and snacks.
Everyone is welcome here, this event is for those who are interested in kink/bdsm no matter your level of experience but you must be mindful of the rules(at the bottom of this event description) and be respectful of the space and the people in it all in all just be a decent human being or don't come.
Vendors
Dirt, Bagged Well
Dirt, Bagged Well is a queer and Black-owned lifestyle self-love brand that aims to bring luxurious, effective skincare to the queer and kink communities. With ethically sourced ingredients as close to the ground as they can swing it, Dirt, Bagged Well carries a selection of soaps, lotion, bath salts, wax play melts, and more! Come say “Hi!"
The Passion Lab
Meagan will be available for you to ask her a question or two at their table. From relationship building, healing, ethical non monogamy, kink/bdsm exploration, and more. Take this opportunity to get your questions answered by a liscened therapist with a specialization in sex therapy!
Tips/donations appreciated
Meagan Narvaez (she/her/hers) is a licensed therapist in Pennsylvania and Washington state specializing in sex therapy. Meagan works with adults of all ages to improve the quality of their relationships, either with their partner(s) or themselves, by recognizing that having a therapeutic space to understand their sexual needs and desires is vital. Some topics that Meagan works with are mismatched libido, difficulties with orgasm/erections, sexual trauma, Kink/BDSM exploration, opening up the relationship, and porn.
Maximus Leather
Instagram: @maximus_leather
Twitter: @maximus_leather
Fetlife: Peteus_maxmius
Maximus Leather is a local hardworking bluecollar queer with a manufacturing background. They strive to make well crafted yet affordable Leather fetish toys and custom leather gear. Featuring a wide variety of products and colors.
Buzz Me In
Buzz Me In provides a safe place to shop for sex positive, body positive, inclusive, and affirming pleasure products in a shame-free environment. We believe that pleasure is for everyone and that is why we offer quality sex toys, pleasure products, accessories and educational resources so that everyone is granted the opportunity to take ownership over their pleasure.
Buzz Me In was brought to life by Mona Wiley, a queer human, immigrant, Egyptian, artist, activist, and educator. The inspiration for this business comes from her desire for a shame-free, educational, sex and body-positive experience, and to be the resource that she would have wanted real-life access to in her own journey. Buzz Me In is an online store in Pittsburgh, PA with a goal to build a storefront soon!
Chris pluto
https://www.instagram.com/xaoc23/
Chris Pluto (they/them) is a designer of weird crochet dolls and jewelry.
Tokeys treats
Website: https://www.tokeystreats.com/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/tokeystreatsllc?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Tokeys treats will have their cbd infused sweet treats and baked goods avaliable for purchase! In addition to this, their mission is to educate women on how cannabis can help them through their sexual empowerment journey after trauma. Being a big proponent of solo play, they give women tips on how to fuck themselves by providing a variety of resources such as online cannabis 101 courses, woman empowerment discussions, thei podcast, blog, and live stream
Details on bag check, tickets, rules and more
We will be implementing a bag check at the bar and there will also be a coat rack but it will not be staffed.
We will have toys available for rent at $10(cash) a piece and once you return the toy you will receive your money back in full, if you fail to return said item or it becomes damaged beyond use we will keep the $10.
Pre sale tickets can be purchased at the link below. Purchasing tickets ahead of time helps immensely thank you! Pre sale tickets will be available to purchase till 4:00p.m the day of the event.
We now also have a link to make donations for those that wish to do so. Donations help with keeping ticket cost low and being able to bring a continued series of events to our community. Donations will help with the cost of food, toys, drinks, and rental spaces.
Link for donations: https://square.link/u/CTZ9cf97
Presale ticket price:
Single: $20
Couple: $35.50
Throuple: $52.50
discounted pre sale tickets can be purchased till 4:00p.m day of event
Door ticket prices:
$20 per person
Event tickets and donations are two separate things, all you need to enter the event is a ticket(and you must have a ticket to enter) making donations are just for those who wish to do so.
Doors close at 8p.m (if you have already purchased admission into the event you can still come and go as you please for the entirety of the event. Also If you arrive after 8:00p.m you will still be granted admittance into the event as long as you have a pre purchased ticket).
This event will adhere to the norms and rules of the bdsm community, if you are found being unruly/violating someone's consent/breaking one of the rules you will be asked to leave the event.
IMPORTANT NOTES AND EVENT RULES:
Be respectful of those around you. No bullying, transphobia, sexisim, racism, fatbobia, whorephobia, and or just being disrespectful to people in general. You will be given a warning and or be removed from the event immediately without refund.
Enthusiastic consent is a must!
No means no do not assume that just because someone is at the event that they are open to playing with you.
Respect people, their boundaries, and their items do not touch them without permission.Be mindful of your PHONE USAGE!
Don't pull out your phone in a place that scenes/play is actively taking place, if you need to check your phone check it somewhere else where play is not happening. You will be asked to put your phone away if seen doing so, if you are warned multiple times you will be asked to leave the event.No weapons
No drugs or outside alcohol on premises(complimentary alcohol is included in your ticket!)
Respect scenes (if you see people engaging and playing with one another) be mindful and do not interrupt or get too close to the scene.)
This is a judgment free zone
Treat everyone with respect. you may see some things that you have never seen before and some things that you may not be into. As long as you come with an open mind you'll be fine.
No photography without permission
No scenes involving bodily fluids(blood play, scat, urine), fire, or substances that would leave a mess.
Most importantly Have fun!
Here are more links on common play party rules that wouldn't hurt to have common knowledge of, what to expect your first time, and how to make sure you have a good time.
https://www.evilmonk.org/a/rules.cfm
https://www.autostraddle.com/how-to-rock-your-first-bdsm-play-party-433485/
if you would like to attend this event but are having financial troubles that make it difficult for you to do so please reach out(especially if you are a bipoc/poc) to inquire about a discounted ticket)